i like terry...but his gentleman status might be questioned by those that listen to scanners. dj had the reputation of being the dirtiest driver on the track when he's next to someone not too long ago. and hamilton? i can't agree with that.
i've never really heard much bad about bobby labonte, and, language aside, i think terry is right up there if not higher.
bill elliott seemed to be the most gentlemanly...he had to be REALLY riled up to spout an ill word in someone's direction, and i don't know of a time when he was off the mark.
how about ryan newman? he made some stupid looking mistakes when he was learning how to drive stock cars, but he seems pretty classy about putting the blame squarely on his own shoulders...like when he "ran out of talent" on pit road a few weeks ago. i haven't heard anything bad about him.
kenseth almost qualifies, but his run-in with harvick is a recent blemish...but in matt's defense, even though i don't totally blame kevin for getting into matt at pocono, harvick does seem to be able to bring out the worst in other drivers.
...and of course, there's 'gentleman' jimmy spencer...oh, wait, that's "gentlemen, and jimmy spencer..."
and mark martin should be included, i think...