For those of us over 40.

TexasRaceLady

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I cannot believe we all survived...

Well you are over forty if you get this. You lived as a child in the 50s and 60s or before. Looking back, it's hard to believe that we have lived as long as we have...

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the back of a pickup truck on a warm day was always a special treat.

Our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paint, and no padded crib protectors to keep us from sticking our heads through the slats.

We could sleep on our backs, our sides, or our stomachs.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cabinets, and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets. (Not to mention hitchhiking to town as a young kid!)

We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle. Horrors!

We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps of wood and old wheels or roller skates and then rode down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times we learned to solve the problem.

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. No cell phones. No pagers. Unthinkable!


We played dodgeball and sometimes the ball would really hurt.

We got cut and broke bones and broke teeth and there were no law suits from these accidents. They were accidents. No one was to blame but us. Remember accidents?

We had fights and punched each other and got black and blue and learned to get over it. And sometimes make up and become best friends.

We ate cupcakes, bread and butter,and drank sugar soda but we were never overweight...we were always outside playing.

We shared one grape soda with four friends, from one bottle and no one died from this?

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo 64, X Boxes, video games at all, 699 channels on cable, video tape and DVD movies, surround sound, personal cellular phones, Personal Computers, internet chat rooms, ...we had real live friends. We went outside and found them. We rode bikes or walked to a friend's home and knocked on the door, or rung the bell or just walked in and talked to them. Imagine such a thing. Without asking a parent!

By ourselves! Out there in the cold cruel world! Without a guardian. How did we do it?

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and ate worms and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes, nor did the worms live inside us forever.

Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment...

Some students weren't as smart as others so they failed a grade and were held back to repeat the same grade...Horrors! Tests were not adjusted for any reason.

Bad behavior at home, at school, or in public was rewarded with corporal punishment, such as a smack or a paddling.

We walked to school or at the very least to the bus stop without our parents taking us because it rained or snowed.

We had people who didn't like us because of our religion, color, ethnic origin, where we lived, who we hung out with, and so forth. We survived.

Our actions were our own. Consequences were expected. No one to hide behind.


The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law, imagine that!

This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem solvers and inventors, ever. The past 50 years has been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all.

God, Family, and friends were the most important things in our lives.

And you're one of them.

Congratulations! Please pass this on to others that have had the luck to grow up as kids, before lawyers and liberal government regulated our lives, for our own good.

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Three kids, ages 6,8,& 10, rode the bus to downtown Houston and spent the day at the Majestic, Lowes or Metropolitan and stopped at Foley's or Sam Houston Bookstore on the way home. I'd be afraid to do it now at 52, 54 & 56! These 3 kids were my aunt, my brother, and myself.
 
TRL, you don't have to be over 40 to have grown up like that. I (close to 40) remember all of what you speak of!!! I can especially relate to: We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors, or cabinets - as I was able to climb the cabinet, open the cabinet door and take out the bottle of St. Joseph Baby Aspirin (I was 5). I gave my sister 4 and I ate the rest - 496. Needless to say.........:eek:
 
I remember all that but I never made a go cart. No place to ride. And all the neighbors knew one another and would talk to each other.
From the old neighborhood where I grew up maybe only 5-6 families out of 70 or so homes in the block still reside there. Most have moved after the kids grew up, married, and left to start their families.
It was so much better growing up back then.
 
TRL, the scary thing about this is that it's our generation that has changed everything. Now and then I see something that takes me right back to the fifties. And you know, back then we didn't have much responsibilities except not soiling our pants. It sure would be nice to have that again! :cookoo:
 
I remember my childhood neighborhood, didn't matter whos kid you were if you did something wrong somebodys parent would straighten you out. At times even to the wood shed. No child abuse just discipline. Normally get it again when your parents found out, which they always did.
 
I remember all of those things. Except for the street lights. I lived in the country no street lights. We stayed out untill after dark. Nothing out there was gonna harm us anyway. Fond memories.
 
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