The people who live in Georgia should decide on thier own flag.
Like it or not, the south is undergoing a revitalization, and has been since the industrial revolution. As for the south being left alone, they encourage the industry, commercialism, home building and any other form of money making by inviting others to live or do business in the "south".
The negative remarks about "southerners" come mainly from the posters here who lay claim to being "southern" or from "southerners" themselves. Note several past posts on this website wherein humor is made of the way "southerners" speak, customs, fettishes, mannerisms, etc.. The south has Jeff Foxworthy, making millions in comedy while ridiculing and encouraging the stereotypical redneck, leading people who are not knowledgeable of the south to believe this is the everyday lifestyle. That is partially where the negativism comes from.
As for "southern hospitality", this is nothing new. This still exists among people living anywhere who have been taught common courtesies. Men still respect women but in some cases must almost fight to open a door for them thanks to NOW. Respect is shown in every state and people rally around in times of distress for thier fellow man. These things are not indigineous to the south.
For those who think they are, look around at your surroundings. If you live in the city, any city, north or south, people DO NOT take the time to say "hello", yet in smaller communities, they still do.
When "southerners" are offended, is it because they themselves cannot agree on what a "southerner" really is. Many use the rebel flag as a sign without really knowing why. Or is it a sign a war was lost years ago when our country, yours and mine, was divided and there was a victor in a war neither side really wanted. There is nothing wrong, absolutely nothing, in telling your children of thier heritage, pride or faith in the causes of that travesty.
Yes, the south is a good place to live, as was the small town in New Jersey. They all have the local customs, and they all have traditions, and these should never be lost. But in being proud of them, we should do so for the right reasons. All the pontificating while trying to make others think the south is unique, it isn't.
But it does consist of a proud people, a strong heritage combined with generational backgrounds, working in concert with all other sections to build this nation into the strong country it is today. This alone does not make a "southerner" any more or less respected than anyone else. Despite all the confusion, it seems we all want the same thing.