I'm So Mad!

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FOURISIS

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If he were to stand in front of me,he'd be another gender!
and I'd make him swallow it.

Okay guys, what would you do if you were cheating and wanted your "cake" and eat it to?
No I don't know for sure if he is cheating.

What he did: 15 thousand loan
Maxed out Lowes,Home depoit,visa and possibly discover cards.
Pours on the love then tells me to go home to my mom.
No I didn't do anything! I stormed out. Got tired of him blaming everything on me after I admitted my mistakes,apologized,and tried to change.I sped down to Belle Chase almost out of cell phone range.I'm furious and don't want to talk to him.Tired of his lies.

By end of this week I'll know which job I'll have.Down to 2.

What would you do if you wanted revenge on someone?
 
Fourisis,
First revenge is a dish best served cold. Next get your stuff in order for you, put yourself first. The debt you talked about, is that in your name or his? If it's in your name do whatever you can to position yourself better. Anything you can take back, do. Anything you can gain posession of, get it. If it's in his name, T.S. Take the best of the two jobs and start over for yourself.
 
Take a deep breath and go see a real good lawyer. In La. you could wind up with everything. Best of luck to ya.
That dirt track near the HPL bridge is the track we will be going to. I don't know when I will be going. My buddys sis in law is going down next weekend and his mother-in-law the week after. Looks like the first of Aug.
 
Good advice Walrus.

FOURISIS, this Kat has been there, forgiven too many times to count and found out after the divorce (which HE wanted) that he had been cheating for 22 years.

Take care of #1, yourself, and the new job will be a big help.
Also, this is the time when you DO find out who your real friends are.

Just don't look back, continue forward with YOUR life and best wishes.

PURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR KAT
 
As Barney Fife would say,Nip it in the bud.Nobody should have to take abuse from anyone.Life is to short.Don't waste your energy on revenge,use it to get your life back.I agree with getting a good lawyer,not for revenge,but to protect your self.Good luck my friend.:)
 
Boy no offense but you got screwed...as if you didnt know...
 
Tab,
Just found out he's on whiskey,found two bottles.very mean and hatefull to me.I'll keep going to church and praying for strength cause I need it.The dirt track by the hpl bridge,are you going there soon?I'm very hurt.get tests back wed.from gyn.worried.Trying to hang in there.on meds around the clock.barely making it day by day.Keep praying.I need it.
 
Might be none of my biz but.....
National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-7233
 
Originally posted by 71Fan
Might be none of my biz but.....
National Domestic Violence Hotline
800-799-7233
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Might be the best advice you got so far on this board. And forget the revenge crap.......that old adage : "What goes around, comes around" will take care of that............AND without any help from you. Hang in there.
 
I will let ya know if I make it down. It looks like the middle of Aug. Do you know how long they race. (Sept. or 0ct.) My buddy down there is a coach, so I have to go before football practice starts.:) Hope the tests come back with good results. Keep praying and thanks for letting us know how you are doing.
 
FOURISIS, hold on girl, we ARE here for you. Whiskey can make a kind person mean but that's no excuse.
As I said, please take care of #1-yourself, let the new job help take your mind off the problems, and keep GOD in your heart. My prayers are with you.
 
all i can say is lean on christ, some times i dont know how i'd make it with out him, ive been through some difficult times, ya i know not divorce, but with a chronic physical illness, and with out him i dont know where id be.



i can do all things through christ who strengthens me.

phillipians 4:13
 
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