I'm tired...

buckaroo

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I'm home for about a week taking care of the wife after she's had surgery...a tummy tuck. I have to administer pain medication to her every four hours and that's around the clock. I also have to empty some drainage tubes as well, not to mention the changing of dressings. What a day so far and it's only 10:30. Took the dogs to the groomer and the female dog had a seizure when we got there, the second time this has happened. Now the HVAC guy is on his way to replace the heat exchanger on the furnace. Ooops, time for another pain medication fix...be right back. Okay, that's over and the HVAC guy is here. The cat wants to love on the wife by pushing on her stomach. Not a good idea. Kitty might be tossed against the wall for that. We'll see how she handles that one.

I'm tired! Pardon me if I nod off to sleep. :blink:
 
Thanks guys. The wife is doing better than they thought she would. But that all goes to the pain medication. She just got another fix and I hope is sleeping. The furnace guy is still here, the cat is meowing all over the place and I just fixed a hot dog. Wish it were one of those from Martinsville. :) At least I don't have to put up with the two mutts for now.

I've done something similar to this before, but I think this is probably the most attention I have had to give anyone all at once. I am glad to do it, but it makes me wonder how all the mothers do it time after time when they have sick children. You ladies are something else. God sure knew where to put that tallent. :)
 
Take care. Prayers for you both.
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Thanks Kelloggs. The wife is doing just fine, but I'm the one that's dragging. :) Not really, but I do appreciate the time I get to be by myself right now.
 
Just call me Nurse Buckyboy

Things are moving along smoothly. She's got so many tubes coming out of her body, I know that's got to hurt, but she's a trouper.

Besides the usual pain meds, I also changed the dressings twice today and even got the "girdle" off and washed that. She put on a new gown and now she says she feels like a new woman. Also, she got to see her new flat tummy for the first time. You should see the glow in her eyes. And those thighs are nice and smooth now as well. Yesterday late, she wondered if it were all worth it. Hold it, Madame is calling.

Okay, gave her some food to eat. Hmmmm good she says. The meds must still be holding on. Another hour and a half before the next dose.

All in all, I think that this day will go down as a day that I'll never forget. It's almost over...well there's still the 7:30 and 11:30 meds, not to mention the 8:00 anti biotics to be administered. I think she'll want to comb or brush her hair tomorrow. She's already complaining that she must look like a mess. I'd say that is a sign of real recovery. :)
 
Awww Buckster, you are a good hubby! The more Red complains, the better. I can't remember what a flat tummy looks like! Heal fast Red.
 
Today was again a busy day for me here at Buck's Medical Center (notice how hospitals are no longer called hospitals but rather medical centers). It started off very early...about 3:30. The alarm went off as planned and I gave Red her meds. After about 30 minutes (emptying the various drainage tubes and such) I turned out the lights and hit the rack again. The next thing I know, I hear some noise and turn to ask Red what was the matter. She wasn't in bed, but had worked herself out of bed and headed for the bathroom. She had removed the Foley the night before. I hustled to the bathroom and chewed her out for doing this on her own. She told me to calm down but I didn't. She wanted the dressing changed so I did that and again turned the lights out and tried to get back to sleep, knowing that in less than an hour, I'd be right back up again.

She had an appointment with the doctor this morning so I drove her to see him. In the meantime, I noticed that our furnace again wasn't working, after paying out the wazoo for a new heat exchanger. I called the HVAC people while at the doctor's office and made an appointment for a tech to come and check it out. That turned out to be a sort of false report, but yet it wasn't. The AC is low on freon and that would cause the problem. We don't have AC now, but at least we have the heat.

After the doc, we headed back home. The wife is definately feeling better as she has begun to fuss about things. I am at her beck and call and told her that she was looking good. That calmed her down and she kept me busy with this and that until later in the afternoon, the daughter and her husband dropped by with some soup and ice cream. I've gotta say that the daughter is becoming quite the cook. Very surprising to the wife and me, but welcome none the less. While Emilie was talking to her mother, I was chatting deep conversations with her husband. Anyone for quantum physics? :D Anyway, we had a good chat and then Red's brother dropped by with their mother's walker, which would work wonders for Red. The kids left and brother and sister had a nice chat. Once the brother left, it was time to get down to some serious business. She wanted to bathe, so we had to remove the girdle and other outter wear and somehow hold up the tubes and bulbs and she stood at the sink and cleaned up. During this time, I washed the outter garments and then helped her back into bed. An hour later, it was time for meds again and the garments were dry. During this period, I was trying to watch a movie, "Flyboys". Got her all finished and tucked her in as she said that she was finally tired. I'm barely able to hold my eyes open as well, but I wanted to finish the movie. When it was over, I came here and am now waiting for the 11:30 meds time (very soon now). Once I give her those, I'm hitting the rack to start all over again. Oh yeah, she finally got to see herself in the mirror and is amazed at the flat tummy she has. :)
 
Thanks guys. I guess it's true that when a patient gets better, they get harder to handle. LOL Red washed her hair today and she's purdy for sure. I finally got a good long night's sleep and a nap this morning, so my batteries are fully charged. She's seeing friends at the present and that in itself is a relief for not only her, but for me as well. :beerbang:

I'm ready to go now.
 
I only wish that I could, but with Red's condition and all the friends, we have plenty of food that is being brought to the house. Can't even find a green beer, but I will put some green dye in my glass of wine. :)
 
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