Thought I'd share this...victim of crime

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I debated on whether or not to share this but here goes.

Back in Oct 2013 I was the victim of an assault. I drive taxi some part time, and I was driving in the drunk rush around 2am when the bars close up here.

I pull my crown vic up and pick up 3 people. One guy staggers into the front seat, the other 2, a guy and a girl get in back. We do not have partitions up here between the driver and passengers.

Right away a nagging doubt hits me about this group. The young guy in front--he might have been 19--starts yammering away. When I ask where they are going and I write it down (no meters in cabs here--small town) he asks "Why are you writing it down? Are you stupid?" This is all said aggressively with a drunken slur. The two in back are fine. The girl helps out and her boyfriend beside her in the back is too drunk to really say anything.

I remember thinking...what is going on here..I have never been treated this way before...

I do not like how this is going, but I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. I put the car in gear (biggest mistake) and leave the club area that has a large cop presence (due to all the drunks)

I say to the guy mouthing off, "I'm just trying to get you home, lets settle down, ok?" His friends also try and calm him down and he seems to settle against the arm rest.

I breathe an inward sigh of relief and just concentrate getting this over as soon as possible.

I get about mid way on the bridge and it starts again. "What are you gonna do? What could you do you idiot?"

Now I start to get worried. The fare is going to a part of town known for "issues" and Im wondering what is waiting for me at his address?

This starts to get worse with "What if I grabbed you?"

I might be naive and believe the best in people, but I have had enough. I turn off the bridge and pull over sharply. I think the guy might have hit his head lightly on the glass, but I just want him out of my car.

I say, "This ride is over, you guys have to get out"

They guy in the front says "Seriously?, Really?"
I say "Yes."

Out of nowhere, he sucker punches me in the face 3 or 4 times very hard. It feels like the car has hit a mack truck. Blood is everywhere !

The girl in the back is screaming, Im on the radio asking for the police, the guy opens his door and runs before I could respond

My taxi buddies rush to the scene some driving over 100 mph to get to me. My taxi friends get to me before the police do and they look for the guy (I would not have wanted to be him if they had found him) and of course they do not find him.

The police and ambulance soon arrive. Im in shock, and dont remember alot but it seems the guy is known to the police, and they wondered if he might cause trouble before the night was out.

They put me in the ambulance and take me to the hospital.
I call my girlfriend from the ambulance and she is very worried about me. My hands are shaking. Im a mixture of angry, shocked, and sad. (my belief in others has taken a hit)

The ambulance attendants are very good and calm me down. Turns out I do not have a concussion but my eye and face look like someone took a hammer to it. I am ok and after a few weeks the bruises fade.

The cops end up catching the guy and he is found or plead, guilty.

He is to be sentenced today.

I know its just an assault and sometimes I think I brought it on myself with pulling over sharply, but I just did not want to wait for where we were going, but I still think about this and even though I still drive taxi I am more aware now, and have listened to my taxi friends. They get me through things......my family needs the extra income.

They have suggested "Dont put it in drive if you have misgivings. Jump out and take the keys and find a cop if they wont get out"


Sigh...I guess I am a little weirded out this still affects me...am I crazy?
 
No, you're just normal. I still won't go out by myself at night because of a hijacking back in 1980. Guy pointed a pistol at me and took my car and purse.
 
No, you're just normal. I still won't go out by myself at night because of a hijacking back in 1980. Guy pointed a pistol at me and took my car and purse.

Thanks..I am glad you are ok...a hi jacking ...
makes me seem ridicules for stressing over this
 
Just got the news.

He is sentenced to 4 mnths jail time and was told that typically he will do 2/3 of this. Supervised probation for 6mnths after
 
I think you did the right thing. Not because I think it will teach your assailant a lesson, but because it will be a violent prior the next time he does something like this.
I do not believe he learned anything from this. Idiots like this are hard learners. Having a prior will yield him more time the next time.
 
glad both of you are alright. plus DF you may have saved a life down the road.
 
glad both of you are alright. plus DF you may have saved a life down the road.

Thanks pudge...part of me wondered if I should even press charges...-sigh- But I know what you are saying and thats what I think about. I wrote my victim impact statement and decided to not read it in court but have the judge read it--I do not want to see this guy ever again. Plus my family just wants my face to drift out of his memory.
 
Thanks pudge...part of me wondered if I should even press charges...-sigh- But I know what you are saying and thats what I think about. I wrote my victim impact statement and decided to not read it in court but have the judge read it--I do not want to see this guy ever again. Plus my family just wants my face to drift out of his memory.

I you ever do, sometimes people mix up the brake and gas pedals.
 
Just got the news.

He is sentenced to 4 mnths jail time and was told that typically he will do 2/3 of this. Supervised probation for 6mnths after
Glad that you are OK DF. You did the right thing for sure.
Like Bobby said it is now on his record and will have a bearing on any new sentencing for this piece of cr@p.

Time heals most things DF and its good to talk about it.
 
Thanks pudge...part of me wondered if I should even press charges...-sigh- But I know what you are saying and thats what I think about. I wrote my victim impact statement and decided to not read it in court but have the judge read it--I do not want to see this guy ever again. Plus my family just wants my face to drift out of his memory.
It's entirely possible that he's done this in past, perhaps more than once and his victim or victims chose not to pursue it. Had they done so, this may not have happened to you or others. People like this a**hole thrive on the fear that they create in people. I knew a guy like that starting in junior high. He started taking my lunch money and then my money I collected delivering newspapers. There wasn't a lot I could do about it physically as he was always about a foot taller and well over 100 pounds heavier than me. I reported it to the school and later the police when it came to the newspaper money, but it only really made it worse. Eventually he got old enough to go to bars and beat people up there as he was like 6'6" and nearly 300 lbs at age 18 and mean as a snake. He ended up in prison for assault (breaking legs for money), later he ended up in witness protection for something with drug dealers, back in prison and finally he overdosed on purpose to save himself from some guys he knew had found him who were going to kill him for some reason. People like that rarely ever change, but you have to do something to help get them off the streets to protect the next innocent victim.
 
Sorry to read about the incident and injuries. Glad things worked out for you and the dirtbag who assaulted you at least got some jail time. Good to know you are okay.
 
The first time I worked after the incident, my friends all got on the radio and welcomed me back...kinda nice. My number at work is 88. (10 was already taken)

We say things like, "88 2 to the Mall" and "88 clear". It makes me think of racing every time I say 88, clear.
 
They just got back to me.

They are giving me some victim services funds for this crime. I can't believe it.
$881.00.
 
When I picked up the victim services check, I was told he was released on Aug 5

He has to abstain from drinking, etc and he has to pay 280.00 in restitution. I am glad that I did not read my statement in court
He was so drunk I am sure he has forgotten what I look like. I do not want him coming around my family.

The guy looking after victim impact told me to call cops if I thought he was hanging around.
 
Might want to send his name and picture around to your cab driving buddies, so they won't pick him up. Heck, I'd post it to all cab offices in the area. He can get his own car, or he can walk from now on.
 
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