What would you do???

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FOURISIS

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Here is the situation: the wedding is set for dec.1st.will start a family soon after.lab results came back really bad out of remission will need to go through treatments.if so than will be steril.if i refuse the treatments and start a family than will get worse possibly the unthinkable.

i dont have kids and want to experience motherhood.(have 2 step sons)
he wants me to go through treatments says better to have me around than not.

what would u do if you were in this situation?
 
Isis, by all means go through the treatments. You can't be a mother if you're dead.

Do as the hubby and I did, find a child/children that need a home, and adopt.
 
I agree with TRL 100%... we're adoptive parents too...

Adoption may be a second choice, but it's not second best.
 
Don't gamble with your life. If you don't go with the treatment you leave at least two people without you...
 
Isis, I have to go along with the consensus here. It's better to have YOU still here!
 
Isis, you KNOW what Momma Kat thinks!

You need the treatment, no matter what. D would feel lost if you didn't or delayed until after having a child naturally. You take care of #1, and as previously said, you don't have to give birth to love a child. You will be a GREAT MOM.
 
thanks everyone.D is going w/me both this tuesday and thur.gonna need all the support i can get.yes i am angry this has happened now when i finally seemed to get things somewhat back to normal.im gonna do my best to stay positive during the treatments.might need to fuss,yell and cry here but im sure i'll have some comfortable shoulders.i hope y'll r ready i warn ya now.
 
Honey, life IS like a box of chocolates. You hang in there and do what the docs say. Try with all your might to get well. Everyone here is pulling for you.
Betsy
 
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