Lap3, I am underwhelmed by all the responses to my question. In the midwest we have an expression that might be appropriate here. Did I fart in church?
I guess maybe it's something we're not supposed to know about. Tried reading old posts for some insight, but as usual I'm still clueless.
I think, if I remember correctly, reading in the 400+ post thread the other night, that her buddy got the boot and she went with. I am not absolutely positive, but I think that is what I read. You would need to confirm that with Paul.