Tragic.
I am sad for Tyler nothing is as upsetting as the death of a child, they are all beautiful and they shouldn't have to suffer. God bless them all, everyone of them.I don't care much for seeing grown men cry, but when it comes to children dying and hurting I am a wuss, I just try to do it in private while the wife will not see me, but it is no shame to feel for the little ones.
I ain't much when it comes to being spiritual. I should be I am just not that strong. But my heart breaks for the parents I can't imagine the hell they are surely enduring and the one they will face for the remainder of their lives. Perhaps their fate is worse than the child.
Unfortunately some high minded low life somewhere will ridicule them, and they will also face the inner voice of some self doubts. I have tried to be a good dad myself but you see your human side raising one, did I handle this or that the right way, we do our best but we are still human.
You try to keep them safe for today and tomorrow, but their still boys that are on their way to manhood and you have to get them ready. So you have to let them have a little controlled risk, because you do want them to grow up and be strong as men. Able to look the woman of their future life in the eye, and face the world the same way with confidence, because a man needs that skill and his future family will also benefit.
So you nurture the dreams of a young one and you allow him to take some risk, a good bird builds the nest and lets the little one enjoy the comforts, but he knows theres a time to let the young fly. To many restrictions can have it's own dangers. You have to roll and move with nature rather than fight it, because being too risky or too cautious are both bad things.
I am sure they just wanted the best for Tyler, and they were there trying to help him have the best that life has to offer, it is hard to imagine that this family activity could have went so wrong. The deepest sympathies I can feel them even as complete strangers is all I can and do offer.
As I said above I am not very spiritual but I have already prayed for the parents, they surely need them, this is most cruel fate and life just ain't fair.
As for any high minded ridiculers, I just wish I could spit on them, they are most worthy, the parents don't need them and the garbage, it is tough enough already.
RIP, and Live in Peace for the survivors.