I don't think a man owes an answer after he smashes his finger with a hammer. His full of BS neighbor might be able to reflect and call it a great learning opportunity, or may testify at church and praise God for the joyful experience. But that doesn't obligate me to seeing it as anything other than a pain, maybe even a days lost work.
I relate this to Kyle because immediately after getting out of the car, the pain was fresh, and it sucked. He went from being the last wild card seed with a win to spare over the closet competitor to being put of the chase. Gordon has had bad luck the whole world knows it. But Kyle has battled reliability that is beyond his control as well. He will never have Gordons post race composure, but I don't think that's required.
All he has to do is control himself, avoid trying a kill Hornaday repeat and get over it alone. He will not be the first, Dale Sr told Jerry Punch to 'get the damn microphone out my face' after spinning into the wall at Bristol. After Darrell Waltrip punted him and Terry Labonte out of the way on lap 499 turn 3 Martinsville he talked to Punch like he was a dummy with something like why are you asking what happened, you saw it with your own two eyes, and I agree no questions, were needed.
Dale was also a master of jumping in a plane white get away van in uniform, get a way driver equipped to get out of Dodge even when finishing second.
AJ Foyt would also intimidate reporters.
All Kyle has to do is not go ballistic with the media, he doesn't have to be a Napa head clown like Micheal Waltrip or sound like a Stefford wife wanting to service Brian France, Helton and Darby.
I will agree Kyle could help himself more, but with his people skills no comment will often be for the best, and that doesn't hurt MMs imo.
My biggest question with Kyle is the Hornaday moments. That's a gut feel instantaneous moment, we're the discipline has to be maintained in real time. No coach or Samantha can help him in those few few seconds.
That's the unknown test, and why I only rate him a 7, but I have no problem with telling the media no comment. I think the top three have to do the post race press conference, but even then a no comment is fine, as long as it isn't personally insulting the press.