Ok, I'm just going to say it, sex is overrated
Now, don't get me wrong. Sex is great, and in some cases can be fantastic and even mind blowing. However, it is rarely worth the price many pay for the pursuit of it, nor is it worthy of the importance many put on it. People like Tiger Woods and Kobe Bryant are famous examples of this, but we all know many people in our own lives who have paid dearly for decisions made in the pursuit of sex. How many children grow up in broken homes because of cheating spouses getting caught? How many have died from AIDS or had their lives dramatically altered by hysterectomies or other complications from various STD's? Again, sex may be one of the greatest feelings in the world, but it's not worth breaking up a family, losing the ability to bear children, or even lose your life over it.