Being a big hockey fan as well I can see some similarities between this and the fighting in hockey. Some fans thinks it has no part in the sport, but others like myself believe it is an integral part. Some say its barbaric and makes the sport looks bad, others say it the most exciting part of a game.
In the end, we can all agree that we don't want to see anybody hurt or injured. However, if there's a day when a driver gets spun out or wrecked and he doesn't care enough to show his displeasure or give a little payback then why would I be interested? I love the passion that these guys drive with, and I enjoy it when certain guys get what's coming to them. It's give and take, and if you take too much then somebody might just give it to you.
Bowyer getting dumped by Gordon is the first one that comes to mind. Sure I didn't like how other cars got taken out, but I respected what Gordon did that day, he took a stand and said I'm not letting this guy get away with it again.
Wrecking a guy under caution is less honourable but sometimes it's the only way to get the message across. What Busch did to Honrnaday was gutless because, it was under caution and there was no real history there. They got together in a racing deal and Busch lost his mind. I can remember Vickers running over everyone a couple years back at Martinsvile (I believe) and a wrecked Jamie Mac tried to dump Vickers back under caution, and I remember thinking that I had no problem with what Jamie Mac did there because Vickers had it coming that day. In the end I think Kenseth dumped him but only after his Chase was effectively ended by Vickers.