Well, yeah, why wouldn't it be that way? If Mark Martin made contact with someone, he was given the benefit of the doubt. If Dale Earnhardt made contact with someone, anyone who wasn't an Earnhardt fan was furious. Why do you think that is?
Like it or not, reputations are earned. Denny Hamlin isn't well liked because he has a history of douchebaggery. Likewise, Ty Gibbs has earned his reputation and it will be up to him to change how he is viewed, if he even wants to. And when you throw a punch at a helmetless driver but refuse to remove yours, yeah, I would say that's solid proof Ty deserves his reputation.
This has been explained to you time and time again when you cry about everyone being "unfair" towards Kyle Busch, so I guess I'm not surprised you still don't get it.