Christmas in July...pretty cool.
It sounds trite, but every day Mrs. Possum does something for me. I am truly blessed to have her.
We have only been together a few years, and have faced some pretty serious challenges in that time. Financial, medical, logistical, in-laws...you name it.
Know that in saying this, I am not looking for sympathy nor am I trying to be a downer. I was recently diagnosed with a serious and potentially fatal medical condition. My prognosis is good, but still it's difficult. I see specialists and take medications that have more side effects than I care to list. At one point or another since this ordeal began, I have experienced every side effect of the medications possible except one. It has been intimidating, scary, and stressful. It has impacted every conceivable aspect of our lives. Because of the numerous surgeries, side effects, and other limitations I haven't been able to do many things I usually do. Simple stuff like raising my arms to wash myself or sometimes just walking across the room have been more than I could do. Let alone trying to take care of the more physical tasks involved in keeping a household afloat. It's getting better, but man is it slow.
Through all of this, she has been right by my side. Not one time has she ever complained about having to do all the housework, or the fact that I just don't have the energy to go out to eat, or having to sacrifice her free time to take care of me, or anything. Not once. Ever. Pardon my French, but I find that pretty damn amazing bordering on stupendous. I could never find the words to express how much easier that makes going through all this. When it requires a concerted effort to walk from one room to the next, when you have to plan a strategy for getting out of a chair so as to minimize the pain, when the simplest daily task is an exercise in determination...having someone there who selflessly gives you the support you need without complaint means a whole lot. Without her, I couldn't do it.
Sorry to go into all that. She is an infrequent visitor here, and although I tell her every day how much she means to me, sometimes ya gotta tell the rest of the world. I will defeat this horrible condition. And when I do, the first thing I plan to do is start making it all up to her, one day at a time, for the rest of her life.