Revman
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This. Right. ******. Here.I’m 61 years old. Excluding outdated medical context, the word ‘reterded’ has been used as an insult all my life.
This. Right. ******. Here.I’m 61 years old. Excluding outdated medical context, the word ‘reterded’ has been used as an insult all my life.
Respectfully no. If his son was intellectually impaired he would have never used that word. Bank on it.Context matters. And I think people need to be somewhat forgiving when people use the r-word in this context because it is a new thing for that word to not be okay to say. Not that it was ever okay, but it's a pretty recent thing for the use of that word to be worthy of cancelation.
Kyle didn't use that as a slur either, IMO. Again, context matters.
Maybe they should have been offended back in "those days."People get offended too easily these days.
Nope. He knew better. He is a smart man. Education has nothing to do with this. I am disappointed. I will get over it.As someone who works in mental health (as does my significant other), let me say this.
Kyle's use of the word wasn't derogatory. The context itself was not harmful. That's not the issue. I recognize that the word was once clinically acceptable. Here's the thing though, the DSM 5 is different than the 4, and the 6 will be different than the 5. Clinical terminology in the mental health community is contestantly changing and evolving with respect to societal impact.
Kyle's intent is not relevant here. He's being made an example. The reality is that a once clinical term has developed derogatory connotations over the years. It's developed into a slang adjective with both derrogatory and non derrogatory intent.
The issue here isn't about intent. The issue is the acceptance that an outdated clinical term, which has developed associations and meaning beyond it's origins, has become part of modern vocabulary, when it shouldn't.
Kyle isn't being punished for an implication, he's being punished as an example of a word being casually accessible that shouldn't be.
Should he lose his job? **** no. Should he be labeled as a bad person? Nope. Was his comment ignorant of the word, it's evolution and use? Sure. Yeah.
So, he's received a non monetary punishment, a non career or personality altering punishment, and is mandated to receive a brief education on it.
Punishment fits the crime.
And it's not a crime. Just an uneducated man who didn't know better, and now he does.
Believe that.
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I don't think the greatest generation is at risk of losing that title anytime soonMaybe they should have been offended back in "those days."
Who picked them as the greatest? Was there a vote? Maybe time for a new one.I don't think the greatest generation is at risk of losing that title anytime soon
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It sure as hell won't be the current one.Who picked them as the greatest? Was there a vote? Maybe time for a new one.
I can agree to that. But some of you older folks surely wouldn't get it IMO.It sure as hell won't be the current one.
Depends tbh. That word where Kyle didn't mean it in that way, just shouldn't be used. Maybe it's because I know people who it would be used against in such a way. Plus one of my best friends brother as well, so I really just don't like the word.Poor choice of words on Kyle’s part.
Over-reaction by anyone that is offended.
Sure, that’s why I said poor choice of words. My guess is Kyle was thinking Brad was a dork, goof, idiot, moron, etc.Depends tbh. That word where Kyle didn't mean it in that way, just shouldn't be used. Maybe it's because I know people who it would be used against in such a way. Plus one of my best friends brother as well, so I really just don't like the word.
Probably best to use them words from now on. I do agree it be more offensive if so, but uh idk. I just rather the word not be used. Hopefully he'll choose his words wisely next time.Sure, that’s why I said poor choice of words. My guess is Kyle was thinking Brad was a dork, goof, idiot, moron, etc.
If Brad was actually mentally compromised then Kyle’s comment could have really been offensive.
The generation that has rightful claim to that title is mostly gone now.I can agree to that. But some of you older folks surely wouldn't get it IMO.
The generation that has rightful claim to that title is mostly gone now.
Hard times create strong people
Strong people create good times
Good times create weak people
Weak people create hard times
Weak people are those who do what's expedient instead of what's necessary.What do you exactly consider weak people by chance? Just wondering, cause some people see it differently.
what do you call those who do what is expedient and necessary?Weak people are those who do what's expedient instead of what's necessary.
Wouldn’t a good mix of both be good? But alright, better answer than I get lots of timesWeak people are those who do what's expedient instead of what's necessary.
Intellectual Disability.
Hell, he could have said disabled and gotten away with it.
It’s like myself and Deegan. I was disappointed she used the word she did. I choose to cheer for a driver regardless of their faultsNope. He knew better. He is a smart man. Education has nothing to do with this. I am disappointed. I will get over it.
But he's emotionally impulsive. Insight, thoughtfulness, and that filter goes out the window when you get "stupid" or "hot" like that. And he slid in a word he shouldn't have. Maybe he knew better. But he didn't have the self control to filter the use of that word.Nope. He knew better. He is a smart man. Education has nothing to do with this. I am disappointed. I will get over it.
And now we have PETA telling them to change the bull pen to the arm pen.A few years ago, MLB renamed their "disabled list" to the "injured list" because people thought it was offensive. No, I'm not kidding.
That generation did amazing things during wartime. Current generations get offended by everything and think the government should pay for their poor choices.Who picked them as the greatest? Was there a vote? Maybe time for a new one.
Yeah and the generation before that ****s on that one, and the one before that, etc. all generations have goods and bad.That generation did amazing things during wartime. Current generations get offended by everything and think the government should pay for their poor choices.
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