This whole sordid ordeal is just plain sad. Brian France has failed. He's still a human being. I am convinced opioids alter thought processes and reasoning. His clearly are not normal. Why do some people in life, who seem to have everything, throw it all away? What makes people self destructive? Look no further than Elvis Presley. Why did he destroy his life? I've attended family counseling sessions for addictions. If you've never dealt with an addict, I am happy for you. Whatever their addiction is, changes them for the worse. Most addicts don't stay on drugs because they just want to, most of them can't beat it. Who on this forum knows how many times Brian may have been to a rehab facility? Detoxed? Counseled? We don't know. I will tell all of you one thing I do know, piling on and calling him names doesn't help the guy at all. Maybe it makes the one doing the name calling and ridiculing feel superior, I don't know. And he is an easy target. Born wealthy, never had to work, whatever. He's not Hitler or Hussien. He's and addict, that's seriously messed up. I'm thinking there are people who would have been happy had he crashed his car and killed himself. Sad indeed.
Preface: First of all thanks for posting something that obviously struck a nerve, or provoked a lot of thought from me.
This is a long post and maybe hard to read. But, I killed a good hour at least when writing it and I am to invested to trim it down.
I have someone in my family that is an addict. I could write concisely and still fill pages about all of the things I have done to try and stop him.
I have seen the horrors, the weeks in ICU, some of it with wrist and ankle ties to contain him during his hallucinations.
I have played the devil and the angel to try to be the agent that would change him. There is no pride in those efforts, because I do have flaws and regrets about how I handled some things.
But something died in my teenage brother when the qualudes took him in him the late 70s. It has been an awful movie of self destruction that is still playing. It makes me mad as hell and sad, and I tried to help him to recover, God knows I have.
Some of methods included maneuvers I made to guarantee he would not have access or any exposure to the drugs. I believed that if I have could sanatize his world for six months (and I did) , that he would find his soul and reject all of the ramifications. But it only led to more disappointment, in the end he was back on the **** ASAP.
Now, I just hope his addiction
doesn't kill anyone other than himself. It will be a sad day when the finality is complete and obvious. I will be heartbroken to see his heartbreak if he hurts someone else and has to live that nightmare.
In some regards these people are victims as you described them.
But most addicts I have have met are liars they abuse the trust they are given. They will take all the of the prescriptions written to another family member that is sick. It could be script for a sick mother or a needy child, it does not matter getting the next fix prevails above all else.
If that does not work they might even go to a pay day lender and mortgage out next weeks resources, regardless of their responsibilities for a child.
I remember taking a young woman to a rehab clinic years ago. She was going there because she had recently given birth to crack addicted baby. She wanted me to advise and coach her on how to regain custody. I told her absolutely not, there is no way I could justify exposing a child to anymore of that type of Hell.
They can go to rehab and detox get cleaned out, and be given time to reflect on how hurtful the addiction was to them and the people they love. That should be a big enough repellant.
The next time they starting consuming the ****, I have no mercy. They are not only selling their own soul, they are choosing the fix over the welfare of every one in their family.
Brian France's tenure as Nascar's CEO was a degradation that was allowed for years. He systemically deconstructed Nascar and his inner circle did not stop the abuse.
No sympathy and a lot of ridicule here for his low life choices and enablers. It granted permission to mess us the almost perfect. It allowed him to mess with something that was the passion of many.
So yes, it is a high five moment. The rabid idiot has finally exceeded his almost infinite boundaries of unworthy permissions. I only wished it would have happened sooner, the tragedy would have had less chapters.
Glad to see the sorry low life go, and I do hope the door does more than hit him in the ass when he leaves.
Forgiveness and compassion for me happens once he offers some real genuine honesty. Which would include admitting he entire tenure as CEO was detrimental to Nascar and to spell it clearly enough to ensure that legacy will live in infamy through the ages.
He deserves to be disgraced.
If he were to do that I would have some compassion and be willingly to take the shirt off my back to help if needed. Otherwise he will always be a parasite unworthy of any respect and trust.
And he should have resigned as CEO on Monday, that should have been a non-negotiatable.
Note: I realize some things or popularity were going to decline, generations change and a mechanical world evolves toward the electronic world.
I would not expect anyone to sustain the booming 90' and early 00's in terms of popularity.
A lot of today's racing landscape belongs to Bill France Jr as well, the internet just was not around then to express some growing concerns.
Brian France just didn't strike me as someone with any comprehension or appreciation for good racing, while also implementing radical changes.
He was an outsider with a bag full of gimmicks, degradation deceives his tenure best to me.