Prayers.....

Just catching up on the story,

hate to hear about the accident, very glad to hear it wasnt worse
 
DanicaFreak said:
All tubes are out.
She's talking and in good spirits
Says she will be walking by prom
I love her so much
Thanks for the kind thoughts
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Good to know, buddy.

I just saw this thread. Glad everything is working out for the better.
 
had a car run over her? Youch. Glad the surgery went well, but the ribs will probably be a bitch for her whole life. I know a few people that have had rib injuries from years ago that still bother them :( With all of them broken, it's amazing she didn't get any major internal injuries.
 
Magnethead said:
had a car run over her? Youch. Glad the surgery went well, but the ribs will probably be a bitch for her whole life. I know a few people that have had rib injuries from years ago that still bother them :( With all of them broken, it's amazing she didn't get any major internal injuries.
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She was in a car, another car ran over said car.



@DanicaFreak glad to hear about the progress. Thoughts are still with your family.
 
DUN24 said:
She was in a car, another car ran over said car.



@DanicaFreak glad to hear about the progress. Thoughts are still with your family.
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Sorry for any confusion but mags is right. Car ran her over. She fell off the hood. Sigh. Teenagers!

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DanicaFreak said:
Sorry for any confusion but mags is right. Car ran her over. She fell off the hood. Sigh. Teenagers!

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Not a lot of entertainment for kids in your neck of the woods I take it? :confused:
 
Clutch said:
Not a lot of entertainment for kids in your neck of the woods I take it? :confused:
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We used to do it......... my wife said her dad used to let them ride on the fenders of the car....... or truck..... stuff happens.... this was just an unfortunate accident that in hindsight was something I'm sure Danica Freak's girl will never do again....... If you think back on all the stupid stuff you have done in your life that could have caused you to get killed...... I bet you couldn't count them on both hands..... I know I couldn't.......
 
I'm am X car surfer.. on an old 53 Ford a buddy had in high school. it's what some of us do. Glad she is going to be ok.
 
DanicaFreak said:
My 17 yr old daughter has been in a horrible accident
All ribs broken, arm, leg pelvis in 4 places
Shes in critical cond, but stable
Surgery today to try and repair her pelvis
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I just now saw this DF ........... I am so sorry to hear about this. If you need to talk, let me know
 
To clear a few things up:

boyfriend and her had a fight
my daughter drives to where he is and wand flags him down with a friend
arugument ensues over a ring and binders daughter says she needs

friend and daughter stand in front of car while they argue with the boyfriend
this is around 430p so its starting to get dark

boyfriend inches his car forward as he wants to leave the situation
friend steps out of the way but he doesnt see my daughter

daughter has one choice she feels
jump on hood or get run over straight up
She jumps on the hood
grabs the wipers and falls off, under front wheels


Low speed but she was run the F over
I want to be angry at the boyfriend
I cant as she loves him and needs him to help her recover--shes so freaking broken
the cops...well therers another accident in the province where the bf was charfged but in this case he is not
They still need her statement
she says she will tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may

Im so ....ripped up right now
 
DanicaFreak said:
To clear a few things up:

boyfriend and her had a fight
my daughter drives to where he is and wand flags him down with a friend
arugument ensues over a ring and binders daughter says she needs

friend and daughter stand in front of car while they argue with the boyfriend
this is around 430p so its starting to get dark

boyfriend inches his car forward as he wants to leave the situation
friend steps out of the way but he doesnt see my daughter

daughter has one choice she feels
jump on hood or get run over straight up
She jumps on the hood
grabs the wipers and falls off, under front wheels


Low speed but she was run the F over
I want to be angry at the boyfriend
I cant as she loves him and needs him to help her recover--shes so freaking broken
the cops...well therers another accident in the province where the bf was charfged but in this case he is not
They still need her statement
she says she will tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may

Im so ....ripped up right now
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Wow, I hope everything works for the best.
 
Why does she need him to help her recover? Has the driver and other girl given statements? She's going to have some hefty medical bills, who will foot the bill?
Glad to hear she's making progress.

You have EVERY right to be ''angry'' at him.
 
Crazy ****t. Your daughter is young and she’ll likely date a few men in her life before she settles down. This guy sounds like he has issues and may not be the one for her. She’ll make it fine without him and everything will be better once this is all just a bad memory.
If it was my daughter that kid would be better off moving far away or something really bad would eventually happen to him.
 
BobbyFord said:
Crazy ****t. Your daughter is young and she’ll likely date a few men in her life before she settles down. This guy sounds like he has issues and may not be the one for her. She’ll make it fine without him and everything will be better once this is all just a bad memory.
If it was my daughter that kid would be better off moving far away or something really bad would eventually happen to him.
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I REALLY want to tee off on him, but the kid is a wreck and you are right about the rest as well.
 
DanicaFreak said:
To clear a few things up:

boyfriend and her had a fight
my daughter drives to where he is and wand flags him down with a friend
arugument ensues over a ring and binders daughter says she needs

friend and daughter stand in front of car while they argue with the boyfriend
this is around 430p so its starting to get dark

boyfriend inches his car forward as he wants to leave the situation
friend steps out of the way but he doesnt see my daughter

daughter has one choice she feels
jump on hood or get run over straight up
She jumps on the hood
grabs the wipers and falls off, under front wheels


Low speed but she was run the F over
I want to be angry at the boyfriend
I cant as she loves him and needs him to help her recover--shes so freaking broken
the cops...well therers another accident in the province where the bf was charfged but in this case he is not
They still need her statement
she says she will tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may

Im so ....ripped up right now
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Did he hurt someone in the other accident too?
 
DanicaFreak said:
To clear a few things up:

boyfriend and her had a fight
my daughter drives to where he is and wand flags him down with a friend
arugument ensues over a ring and binders daughter says she needs

friend and daughter stand in front of car while they argue with the boyfriend
this is around 430p so its starting to get dark

boyfriend inches his car forward as he wants to leave the situation
friend steps out of the way but he doesnt see my daughter

daughter has one choice she feels
jump on hood or get run over straight up
She jumps on the hood
grabs the wipers and falls off, under front wheels


Low speed but she was run the F over
I want to be angry at the boyfriend
I cant as she loves him and needs him to help her recover--shes so freaking broken
the cops...well therers another accident in the province where the bf was charfged but in this case he is not
They still need her statement
she says she will tell the truth and let the chips fall where they may

Im so ....ripped up right now
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Thanks DF for sharing this life story with us. It really makes me think how I would
react in this kind of situation. Right , wrong or not applicable , I will offer my 2 cents .
When our 2 daughters (who are now in their mid to late 20's) were going through their teens,
I would always tell them, plan on having 5-7 boyfriends in your life and don't get too hooked on
one till then. There will be deal breaking flaws with all of them and that's how you find
which to avoid in the future. Hopefully after all that , there will be one suitable for marriage
down the road, way down the road. Goes along with what Bobby Ford said.

First of all - your daughters health and well being during her recovery is paramount. Letting her
talk and get out all of her emotions and thoughts will free her brain up to help heal the injuries.
Just being there for her when she is in a mood to talk will do wonders.

The boyfriend - In all my thinking I have honestly tried to find ways to forgive him and give him a pass.
Its just not happening. Even if he was known as the best person in town , triple eagle scout, captain of
all sports teams, straight A student, goes to church every Sunday, nope , cant do it. This is also his
lesson to learn and consequences to bare. I just cant believe he made the choice to press the accelerator and not
stop ,put the vehicle in park, and say get off my car. Like you said ,teenagers, we have all
done a lot of stupid stuff, but that does not relieve him of the consequences.

Work with the law enforcements investigation but I would also get some
legal advice before the daughter makes too many statements especially if under pain meds. I would check with
a few legal firms to see if they have had any cases like this. We could be talking about
giant medical bills over the next several months and you will need to explore
all possibilities fairly.

So there's my "download".
You have probably thought through all of this already so there maybe nothing new here for you.
Good Luck and hang in there!
 
They had a fight and your daughter and her friend drove over to him to confront him.
It doesn't start well.
 
Michfan said:
Did he hurt someone in the other accident too?
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Another person in the other accident--in a city close by. weird to have 2 similar happen so close together. Im in fredericton, the other was in sussex
 
Some pretty crazy stuff went on there my friend........ but...... kids DO pretty crazy stuff...... and at the time think it's the right thing to do..... I am so sad that your daughter has to go thru this...... and you and your wife have to shoulder the burden of the rehabilitation and medical costs..... as someone mentioned....... looking into the legal side of this is one way.... but..... I'm thinking this is more than likely a dead-end avenue because the kid might not even have insurance and if you sue him.... he doesn't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of.... you can't get blood from a turnip.... I'd say all you can do is just cross your fingers and hope for the best...... your daughters health is the most important right now..... I just hope the medical bills will be covered by medical insurance.... It's very easy to lose everything you have worked for all your life because of one instance like this..... We are all crossing our fingers and hoping for the best for your whole family......
 
my sentiments have already been paraphrased above. Here in Texas, there would have been body bags likely required. Even the underaged and women carry BB/Airsoft/Pellet/Illegial heat......

Remind her that there's poor saps like me that are 29, single, well employed with a hobby, and a clean manfax. Maybe she'll find one too if her society doesn't ^#$%$@ all up.

Also, consult legally. She;s likely to have medical bills for *YEARS*
 
Magnethead said:
my sentiments have already been paraphrased above. Here in Texas, there would have been body bags likely required. Even the underaged and women carry BB/Airsoft/Pellet/Illegial heat......

Remind her that there's poor saps like me that are 29, single, well employed with a hobby, and a clean manfax. Maybe she'll find one too if her society doesn't ^#$%$@ all up.

Also, consult legally. She;s likely to have medical bills for *YEARS*
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Medical bills....so far they are $0. Canada is great that way. I have work coverage for her teeth....but I get your point. Im concerned with the mental fall out.

manfax. LOL
 
Yeah, the boyfriend sounds like a POS. Deserves anything that happens to him, imo.

"I'm going to rev the motor, start moving forward, and hope the two females move out of the way". Not the thought process of a gentleman, that's for sure.
 
DanicaFreak said:
Medical bills....so far they are $0. Canada is great that way. I have work coverage for her teeth....but I get your point. Im concerned with the mental fall out.

manfax. LOL
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Once she is on her own for insurance, that could change. I have friends that still deal with rib injuries from years ago. Any small injury and you're back in the hospital getting an MRI/X-ray.
 
How is she taking this development? I understand up there her med costs are covered but do you/she have recourse for her 'pain and suffering''? At 17 what about school, will she lose a year?
 
Bobw said:
How is she taking this development? I understand up there her med costs are covered but do you/she have recourse for her 'pain and suffering''? At 17 what about school, will she lose a year?
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talking to the school likely on Wed
She is not taking the bf leaving well.
She hates being in the bed
She wants to be doing homework, grad year stuff not worrying about bones, teeth and hair
 
The schools i work for, everything is online. We have several kids that have to take extended absences without falling behind.
 
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