Danica made a habit out of not being real likeable or worthy of sympathy at times, and I believe no matter what happens in your life, you alone are responsible for your actions. BUT, I also think there are often legitimate reasons why people are who they are, and I think that the Graham Bensinger interview gives you a little insight into that. I think her experience in Europe scarred her pretty good, and I think her ex-husband did a real number on her. I find it curious that she seemingly couldn't even bring herself to say his name or say "my husband". That part of her story sounds remarkably similar to Jeff Gordon's version of his life with Brooke towards the end.